Ginny Muir
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Final 24 hours to join The Lovers Collective (and the realest real from own life, because why not)
Hey there people, I'm freshly back from sunset and tacos with my husband. The way he just toasted my grumpy ass was beautiful, profound, humbling... and kinda the whole point. (Stick with me; this is not an idealized, aspirational fluff piece). (It's also not short. If you're not feeling the deeply personal essay, and just want to sign up for The Lovers Collective at this last possible hour, everything you need to know – including cost, structure, call schedule, all the goods-- is right here...
The Lovers Collective July - September cohort is open for enrollment!
Greetings, my people! Popping into your inboxes with much delight today to invite you into the upcoming cohort of my signature program, The Lovers Collective. This work is about shifting your relational reality in the realm of romantic love, yes. But, unsurprising to anyone who knows me, it's wider and deeper than just that. What I'm really here for is the creation of a new paradigm of relationship. And that means relationship to all things. As one member of our April - June cohort put it:...
Can you allow yourself to inhabit *rebel without a clue*? (what I've been up to... pssst don't miss the playlist)
Greetings, humans of heart. It's been a minute. Story time: A week ago, someone I formerly related to as a mentor + guide on my path told me he thought I was “shitting the bed in my life” (his actual words, not my own internalized exaggeration)*. And it threw me for a loop. I spent a couple days processing this judgment, wrestling with my fear I’m not “where I’m supposed to be” (as if that’s even possible). But it’s helped me see something: a hill I’ll die on: Being willing to let go and...
FINAL DAY TO JOIN THE LOVERS COLLECTIVE!
Hi friends, I'm writing you from the Hudson Valley in New York, where I've arrived to help my dear friend Becca prepare for and (hopefully, if he cooperates timing-wise) move through the birth of her second baby. Speaking of Becca, did you get a chance to listen to our episode of her podcast, Belonging? "From Lonely in a Crowd to Truly Met: the Relational Work Nobody Talks About." It was a rich conversation and, at the end, we touch on something I want to share today as I send you this final...
Psssstttt.... men: The Lovers Collective is also for YOU
Hi gang, Coming in to give you the heads-up that The Lovers Collective enrollment closes in just over 24 hours. I know your inbox is full. I know it's hard to keep up. In today's world, I've gotta tell you 15 times that the thing is happening, or else I'm not really offering it. (And that would be on ME.) If this cohort is for you, I want to make sure you don't miss out. I also want to remind you that The Lovers Collective is, by design, an INCLUSIVE and DIVERSE space. My dream is to hold a...
Courage, humility, audacity. I have invested SO MUCH MONEY in my own heart.
Hi friends, My divorce in 2015 did not align with the narrative arc I had planned for myself. It was absolutely the true choice, and it was also a humbling curveball. In the 6 months preceding the decision, my former husband and I devoted ourselves to a therapeutic container-- the first time I had ever invested any money at all in looking at my patterns in relationship. As I met our therapist's questions and received his reflections, I felt like... a baby. I was shocked to meet the truth: I...
If you've ever wanted to work with me 1:1, TLC Tier 2 is the most affordable way to do it. (Or, come get coached for free tomorrow!)
Happy Thursday, friends... Real talk: one of the reasons I created The Lovers Collective is because I want to be able to coach more people, more affordably. My 1:1 Mentorship and 2:1 Relationship Alchemy work is very high-touch, very intimate, very immersive. It is also limited (only a handful of spots-- often full, after 16 years of referrals-- and not cheap. For years, I've wanted something more robust and ongoing to offer. Something to say other than "I totally get why that's not in your...
B’s partner thought he didn’t “belong” in relational coaching spaces. But one fight changed it all.
Friends, If you’re new here, welcome! Welcome to the intimate salon that is my email list. Come and go as you please, always, and I hope you receive something while you’re here. You’re joining us in a moment where I’m writing about relational truths. Let’s talk about people who don’t feel safe or supported in (and thus very reluctant to show up to) most “therapeutic” spaces. B joined my group program because she was in a new relationship that meant a lot to her. Read: she didn’t want to f*ck...
In order to get what you (actually) want, you have to know who you (genuinely) are.
Friends! As promised, I’m bringing you an email series I’m calling “The Truth is Erotic” — tips, tales and thought-provoking questions in service of a less-lonely world. Today I want to talk about C. Six months ago, she came to me fresh out of a breakup— particularly painful because it was familiar. Nearing 40, she had seen the pattern play out many times — all her efforting, masking, and trying to be 'perfect' finally giving way to an emotional expression that brought the whole thing...
Can we admit we matter to one another, AND find a way to tell the truth?
Greetings, humans connected to my heart. We may have met once. Or perhaps we’ve spent countless hours, cuddled against couch cushions, talking about life and love and the universe. Orrrrrr: maybe your chair was next to mine in a workshop, or you’ve been my student, or we vibed on a dance floor, or we shared a tent in the rain, or you heard me on a podcast, or I cooked you fish stew in a candlelit kitchen, or you literally watched me take my first breath (hi, Mom!). I don’t care so much HOW...
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